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		<title>Who Do You Say That I Am?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 12:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In Matthew 16:15, after asking the rather oblique question, &#8220;Who do others say that I am?&#8221;, Christ asked the disciples, &#8220;Who do you say that I am&#8221;? A recent Barna Group research study revealed that less than 9% of all adult Americans have a &#8220;biblical worldview&#8221;*. In addition, only 19% of &#8220;Born again Christians&#8221;** have [...]]]></description>
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<p>In Matthew 16:15, after asking the rather oblique question, &#8220;Who do others say that I am?&#8221;, Christ asked the disciples, &#8220;Who do <strong><em>you</em></strong> say that I am&#8221;?</p>
<p>A recent Barna Group research study revealed that less than 9% of all adult Americans have a &#8220;biblical worldview&#8221;*. In addition, only 19% of &#8220;Born again Christians&#8221;** have a biblical worldview. Interestingly, these percentages have remained unchanged for almost 15 years.</p>
<p>Among young adults (the &#8220;Mosaic&#8221; generation, ages 18 to 23), the percentage of people with a biblical worldview is less than one-half of one percent, as compared to near 1 out of every nine older adults***.</p>
<p>What do numbers like these mean to Christians, to our nation, and to parents and youth? Click through to read more&#8230;<span id="more-309"></span></p>
<p>To get a picture of what this number means, let&#8217;s imagine you &#8211; the dedicated reader &#8211; as a community college instructor at a large college and that you teach five classes a day of a common elective. At 08:00, two hundred students file in to your room and &#8216;learn&#8217; for 50 minutes. A front row of young eyes fifteen people across, and thirteen or 14 rows deep. At 09:00 this repeats, then 10:00, 11:00 and 13:00. One thousand young adults throughout each weekday, watching you and listening; taking what you say and processing it.</p>
<p>How many of those students entered that room and listened to what you taught through the filter of a biblical worldview? Five or less. One in every class. In that sea of faces, only ONE young person looked at their instructor and filtered every word and concept through a filter of ancient God-given wisdom that was intended for our betterment. And we wonder! We wonder why youth seems &#8216;lost&#8217; and afraid, always compensating for something unseen. We wonder why suicide rates are up, why school shootings happen, and why there is so much personal pain in the world as a result of poor choices.</p>
<p>Every time I speak about numbers like these, well-meaning (and perhaps defensive) parents say, &#8220;Oh yes, but it&#8217;s common while youth are &#8216;finding themselves&#8217; to question their faith. They will &#8216;come back&#8217; and believe&#8221;. They then quote Proverbs 22:6, secure in the knowledge that the child &#8220;will return when he or she is older&#8221;. Two points there, first, we already know &#8211; from this same study &#8211; that only one of nine adults &#8216;come back&#8217;, and my second is related, and that is, &#8220;Come back to what&#8221;? Other Barna studies have also pointed out that a persons worldview is primarily shaped and is firmly in place by the time someone reaches the age of 13; it is refined through experience during the teen and early adult years; and then it is passed on to others during their adult life. Such studies underscore the necessity of parents and other influencers being intentional in how they help develop the worldview of children.</p>
<p>Worldview has a dramatic influence on a persons choices in any given situation. Research indicates that there are unusually large differences in behavior related to matters such as media use, profanity, gambling, alcohol use, honesty, civility, and sexual choices where one worldview vs. another is concerned.</p>
<p>Barna put it best when he said, &#8220;There are several troubling patterns to take notice of. First, although most Americans consider themselves to be Christian and say they know the content of the Bible, less than one out of ten Americans demonstrate such knowledge through their actions. Second, the generational pattern suggests that parents are not focused on guiding theirÂ children to have a biblical worldview. One of the challenges for parents, though, is that you cannot give what you do not have, and most parents do not possess such a perspective on life. That raises a third challenge,Â which relates to the job that Christian churches, schools and parachurch ministries are doing in Christian education. Finally, <em>even though a central element of being a Christian is to embrace basic biblical principlesÂ and incorporate them into one&#8217;s worldview, there has been no change in the percentage of adults or even born again adults in the past 13 years regarding the possession of a biblical worldview&#8221;.</em></p>
<p><span style="color: #003300;">Are you learning every day? Do you pass on what you learn? Do you LIVE what you learn so those around you can be affected by it? Are you part of a church that helps you mature in correct biblical learning (orthodoxy) and then mentors you and holds you accountable while you live it (orthopraxy)? You cannot give what you do not have, and there are a majority of people in our country who THIRST for more, and can be given nothing, because most of us have nothing to give.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #003300;">I challenge you today; hit your knees, ask the Lord to fill your cup, and then pour it out on others. Rinse and Repeat.</span></strong></p>
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<p>DEFINITIONS</p>
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<p><strong>*</strong>For the purposes of this survey, a &#8220;biblical worldview&#8221; was defined as believing that absolute moral truth exists; the Bible is totally accurate in all of the principles it teaches; Satan is considered to be a real being or force, not merely symbolic; a person cannot earn their way into Heaven by trying to be good or do good works; Jesus Christ lived a sinless life on earth; and God is the all-knowing, all-powerful creator of the world who still rules the universe today. In the research, anyone who held all of those beliefs was said to have a biblical worldview.</p>
<p><strong>**</strong>For the purposes of this survey, these are people who said they haveÂ made a personal commitment to Jesus Christ that is important in their life today and that they are certain that they will go to Heaven after they die only because they confessed their sins and accepted Christ as their savior.</p>
<p><strong>***</strong>The other group that possessed a below average likelihood of holding a biblical worldview were those people that describe themselves as liberal on social and political matters (also less than one-half of one percent).</p>

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		<title>A Cheer That Sounded Through the Heavens..</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 00:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This video was embedded using the YouTuber plugin by Roy Tanck. Adobe Flash Player is required to view the video. I have never linked to a video on this blog, and with good reason; there are precious few things that I will subject myself to, and fewer yet that I will push upon others. This [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have never linked to a video on this blog, and with good reason; there are precious few things that I will subject myself to, and fewer yet that I will push upon others. This video, however, captures &#8211; in some small human way &#8211; a universal truth that we all were reminded of today, Christ&#8217;s death, burial, and resurrection. Click twice on the video (embedding is disabled), watch it, and then click through &#8211; below &#8211; to read more, if you&#8217;re interested&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-293"></span>As fascinating as this clip was, what could it possibly have to do with Christ? Here we had a woman, initially targeted as a subject likely because she was plain, frumpy, unemployed, with few prospects, and &#8220;oldish&#8221;; that is, she was completely out of place. As they talked to this woman, I would assume that they thought she was a nice woman, but that she would be a spectacular failure in front of the judges. When she walked out on the stage, you could hear the people in the crowd twittering, wondering if this was a put-on, and many feeling like, &#8220;Why must we endure these jokes of talent&#8221;? When she showed some humor and did her little jig, that drew looks of horror and disdain from the judges, because this woman wasn&#8217;t a cute, sexy blonde. Finally, she was let free to do what she came to do; sing to an audience.</p>
<p>When she opened her mouth and let out that first note, every face in the audience changed. Every person that was so ready to watch a spectacular failure saw &#8211; instead &#8211; the beginning of a victory in the making. By the end of the first bar, the audience was cheering. In two bars, an audience that was mocking Susan and her attempt at fame was on it&#8217;s feet cheering her. She, rather than giving them entertainment via failure, had given each of them hope through her spectacular voice and success. The judes were taken aback; humility gripped them &#8211; all except Simon &#8211; as they gave their reviews. Each of them knew they had prejudged her, given her no chance, and they were humbled as they gave her kudos.</p>
<p>Envision the scene in heaven as God Himself prepared to come to earth. Do you think there were angels that second-guessed the idea? Perhaps silently, perhaps in reverence to their Maker yet, but some must have thought poorly of the idea. Try &#8211; for a moment &#8211; to imagine what heaven must be like, and then contrast this with the cave that Joseph and Mary were in, and the dangerous (and rather dirty and disgusting) process childbirth was at that time. Countless thousands watched as our Savior was born into this earth, and don&#8217;t tell me for one second that some didn&#8217;t wonder what success this endeavor could possibly see. An inauspicious beginning, a normal carpenters upbringing, and an adulthood marked by wandering and speaking. The prophet Isaiah tells us that the Lord had nothing about Him so that men would be drawn to Him by His appearance. He was also unremarkable, and &#8220;set up for failure&#8221;.</p>
<p>While Susan&#8217;s video was only 5 minutes long, 33 and one-half years isn&#8217;t long for a heavenly host to wait, and they all watched Christ&#8217;s life and ministry as He grew. I have to believe that the reaction of the watching thousands when Christ was scourged was much as the judges saw with Susan as she stood there&#8230; disgust, sorrow for the spectacle they were making of Him, and a certainty that nothing good could come of this. As He breathed His last, the entire earth shook in horror, and as He was laid to rest, there must have been deep sorrow in heaven. How quiet must it have been in a place that had, until that day, been filled with praises sung to the Lamb.</p>
<p>And then&#8230; after two night passed here on earth, on that glorious morning, how the heavenly hosts must have sung. The feeling you get watching the reaction to Susan&#8217;s first note is such a small and insignificant pale compared to what the heavens must have done that day; but it gives us an insight into the joy of that Morning. Glorious victory as heavenly light pierced the tomb and Jesus emerged! Praise the Lord, the plan was complete! <strong><em>Can you imagine how the heavenly host sang then</em><em>!?</em></strong>. Do you think that the angels that wondered about The Plan are now His strongest witness? Imagine their hearts as they watched this play out, exactly as God planned it.</p>
<p>Folks, if our hearts can take this much joy in one woman&#8217;s triumph on this sinful earth, how much more did a sinless heavenly host rejoice at His victory over sin and death? How much must they rejoice when even a single sinner accepts the gift He gave to each of us? Feel the joy this audience had at Susan&#8217;s short success, multiply that by millions, and assume that this is the way the heavenly host feels when we are broken and fall at His feet.</p>
<p>HE IS RISEN&#8230; and praise God for that.</p>

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<p>The state in which I live has put forth a new motto for tourism, which you see written in the title of this post. Rather than debate the indefensible basis for this motto &#8211; which has little to do with the outdoors, vacationing, lakes, or any other actual tourist activity in the state of Wisconsin &#8211; I thought we could look at this motto as it applies to the Christian life.</p>
<p>On the face of it, the motto is catchy, if a bit misplaced. In a state renowned for the drinking problems of its inhabitants, perhaps it is a dangerous thing to ask us to &#8220;mean it&#8221;, rather than continue just &#8220;doing it&#8221;.</p>
<p>What would our lives look like if we followed this motto? Is there a base in Scripture for the idea that Christians should live this way? Let&#8217;s investigate.<span id="more-240"></span></p>
<p>First, <em>excellence in every one of our endeavors</em>. We know &#8211; as Christians &#8211; that we should be dedicated to quality and improvement in every area of our lives. In Colossians 3:23 we read, &#8220;And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men&#8221;. This makes it clear that we do things &#8220;heartily&#8221; because we are doing it &#8216;for the Lord&#8217;, or, written another way, we do everything for His glory.</p>
<p>The word translated &#8220;heartily&#8221; here is &#8216;psyche&#8217;, meaning your inner self, with your whole being, mind, heart and soul. This obviates the possibility that we can do <em>anything</em> &#8220;half-hearted&#8221; as Christians; we do <em>all things</em> to His glory, with all of who we are. Note that this leaves a massive expanse of glorious difference in our approach, as each thing is done with our inner being, and we are all very different&#8230; and God intended this.</p>
<p>Stop for a moment and think about the import of the previous paragraph. Each thing that you do, is done to the glory of God. Just like every action you take in the presence of your children &#8216;trains them&#8217;, every action you take in front of God (hint: all actions) is to His glory. Either you are doing a good job of glorifying Him, or you are not. Do you think that we have this in the back of our mind all day, every day? What might our lives look like if we did? If we lived this intentionally, do you think that we might have to talk about God less because others might see Him in us a little more?</p>
<p>&#8220;In all things, preach Christ; and if necessary, use words&#8221; &#8211; <em>St. Francis of Assisi</em></p>
<p>Second, <em>the abundant life</em>. Christ said, in John 10:10, &#8220;..I have come that they may have life, and that they may haveÂ <em>it</em>Â more abundantly&#8221;. Many pastors &#8211; TV evangelists especially &#8211; are espousing the idea that Christ is referring to temporal wealth or physical happiness here on this earth. Since the tale of the rich young ruler, most of the book of James (or John 15), and the life of King David make it clear that A) riches can be a hindrance to people in a walk of faith, B) that we will certainly see trials in this life, and C) that &#8216;men of God&#8217; get discouraged and can become profoundly unhappy. So, what then did Christ mean by the word, &#8220;abundant&#8221;?</p>
<p>The word translated as &#8220;abundant&#8221; here is the Greek word &#8216;perissos&#8217; which translates elsewhere as &#8220;excellent&#8221;, &#8220;in abundance&#8221;, &#8220;excess&#8221;. It is the word used to mean, &#8220;We took until we could take no more, and we have yet more&#8221;. In surrounding verses we see that Christ is speaking about sheep, and their shepherd. Some historical context is also helpful here. At night, shepherds would herd several flocks into a rock-walled enclosure, and they &#8211; the shepherds &#8211; would lay and sleep in the opening through which the sheep came. They were &#8211; quite literally &#8211; the &#8220;gate&#8221; where the sheep came in and out. In the morning, a shepherd would stand at the gate and call for his sheep, and because they knew his voice, they would come out and go with the shepherd to the pasture of choice that day. This knowledge of history gives a tangible and real face to the story Christ is relating to his disciples.</p>
<p>So, what then does Christ mean by His words? He is not speaking of the life that the sheep have, a temporal existence, heartbeat, and so on because each of the people to whom He was speaking was already alive. Christ was speaking about a life &#8220;in Him&#8221;, a life beyond what we know here, eternally but also spiritually here and now. Essentially Christ was saying, &#8220;I will take the life you have now and increase its meaning and depth boundlessly, giving you purpose here (glorify God) and the knowledge that you are living for me. <em>The abundant life is a spiritual life lived to the glory of God.</em></p>
<p>So, we live the abundant life with all our heart, mind, and soul as Christians. That sure sounds like, &#8220;Live Like You Mean It&#8221;, right? The one thing that we&#8217;re missing is the concept that we can all do this and look very different doing it, and we can still be squarely within the intent of God. We dislike this concept as a church, we want a homogenous environment where everyone looks similar and is serving in a similar way. Christ&#8217;s disciples didn&#8217;t look like that and God hasn&#8217;t created us like that. We all look radically different, living different lives, <em>and yet we live for Him</em>. Get over it.</p>
<p>Recently my wife and I attended a meeting of Christian bikers, and someone in the group was cautioning against &#8220;appearing&#8221; a certain way to &#8216;bikers&#8217;. My dear wife &#8211; unable to keep silent any longer &#8211; made the perfect point, and that was, &#8220;Look; don&#8217;t <em>appear</em> to be <span style="text-decoration: underline;">anything</span>! <strong>Be who you are.</strong> If you don&#8217;t know who that is, figure it out and then <em>be that</em>. Anyone living life &#8220;like they mean it&#8221; &#8211; hardcore biker or otherwise &#8211; will sniff out a phony faster than anything else, and your witness to that person will be immediately ineffective. Figure out who you are, what the unique personality is that God gave you; figure out where that intersects with His general will for us to live a life &#8216;set apart&#8217; and to bring the gospel to all nations, <em>and then live that</em>, &#8220;like you mean it&#8221;. If even a small percentage of Christians were to live this way, we would see a world changed for the Lord in a single generation. Change the world for Christ, but do this through a life lived with intent, to the fullest, in His joy.</p>
<p>Live it folks, and be joyful when others live it, even if they don&#8217;t do it your way. Let me know if your &#8220;joy&#8221; in the Lord increases?</p>
<p>P.S. Read verse 16 in John 10 and let me know how many churches there are in God&#8217;s view? How should we act as a body in light of this?</p>

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		<description><![CDATA[Not often does a movie come along that I enjoy. Rarer still, a movie that I respect. Still harder to find, a movie that I enjoy, respect, and that I am emotionally caught up in and learn something from. Fireproof is one of these rare movies. In fact, it may stand alone in its own [...]]]></description>
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<p>Not often does a movie come along that I enjoy. Rarer still, a movie that I respect. Still harder to find, a movie that I enjoy, respect, and that I am emotionally caught up in <span style="text-decoration: underline;">and</span> learn something from. <a title="Fireproof Site" href="http://www.fireproofyourmarriage.com">Fireproof </a>is one of these rare movies. In fact, it may stand alone in its own category.</p>
<p>This movie tells a story about a man &#8211; Caleb Holt &#8211; whose marriage is now coming on hard times. It&#8217;s coming onto hard times because neither he nor his wife have learned how to love unselfishly. Their reaction is to end the marriage, rather than fight for it. The main character&#8217;s father steps in and asks his son to go on a 40-day &#8220;love dare&#8221; journey, treating his wife the way a wife should be treated, regardless her &#8216;worthiness&#8217; to accept that love and care. The journey takes some tough twists and turns, and the results are &#8211; to him &#8211; unexpected and will change his life forever.</p>
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<p>This film is unapologetically Christian. It states that to give love, you must first understand love, and you must have it. This true love can only come from Christ and it is only this love that lasts forever, is wholly unselfish, and the only love strong enough to hold even when the other person is &#8216;undeserving&#8217;. There are so many layers to this film it is difficult to discuss them all, but male pornography issues, older male and female mentoring, Christian friends, influence of parents in the life, Christian witness, and counseling are all touched on and dealt with in reasonable and approachable terms.</p>
<p>Why did I enjoy this movie so much? Well, because I am Caleb Holt. I don&#8217;t mean that I am a firefighter and that the movie was modeled after my life, I mean that I acted as Caleb acted, and my life came to the same crossroads as his did. In fact, I acted far worse than Caleb did, for a longer period of time, was far more addicted to pornography, and this with three children in the house. My crossroad was an offramp on a freeway, not a fork in the road.</p>
<p>After a 2-hour struggle on my knees with the Lord (which I lost and He won), I came out of that dark place and began to treat my wife with the love that I am called to show, even though she had nothing to return. I did this after she left the house with the children, and in God&#8217;s grace, He loved her back into our marriage. I didn&#8217;t have a 40-day plan, but I knew that my approach to life had been &#8211; to this point &#8211; completely unsuccessful. I had things, and money, but nothing that mattered, and I wasn&#8217;t walking with my Lord. I decided that, even if He did not return my family to me, that I would walk with Him because I was inqdequate on my own. I would &#8211; finally &#8211; become part of the solution, and not the problem. I would help build God&#8217;s kingdom here on earth.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know where each of you are in your marriages, but I can guarantee that there are pieces of Caleb and Catherine in each of us. For the married, I urge you to watch this movie with your spouse. For single men, I urge you to watch this movie and see the positive effect that Christian friends can have on a man, and the devastating effects of pornography on a woman&#8217;s heart. Single women, watch this movie and learn not to gossip, or to exacerbate your friends marriage difficulties with a sharp tongue.</p>
<p>If your marriage has had struggles and you watch this movie with your spouse, watch the matinee and set aside the entire evening for healing and talking. This movie is one of the very few that can change your life if you let it. If you are willing to go &#8216;all the way&#8217; and let the Lord into your heart as well, this movie won&#8217;t just change your life, it will be responsible for leading you to the One that saved it.</p>

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		<title>Do I Have To Go To Church?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yep, sure do. At least that&#8217;s the answer I give when a Christian asks me the question. I will sidestep the arguments around what &#8220;a church&#8221; means, if &#8220;home churches&#8221; are &#8216;okay&#8217; or not, and if &#8220;mega-churches&#8221; have the Spirit at all, and focus on the idea that Christians need to meet with, lean on, [...]]]></description>
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<p>Yep, sure do. At least that&#8217;s the answer I give when a Christian asks me the question. I will sidestep the arguments around what &#8220;a church&#8221; means, if &#8220;home churches&#8221; are &#8216;okay&#8217; or not, and if &#8220;mega-churches&#8221; have the Spirit at all, and focus on the idea that Christians need to meet with, lean on, and support other believers.</p>
<p>Another question I get is, &#8220;If I don&#8217;t go to church can I be saved&#8221;? This question is usually asked because people don&#8217;t want to associate with Christians, or just don&#8217;t like other people very much at all. Of course, we can do exactly <em>nothing </em>to move us even one iota closer to salvation, church or no church. We are asked to associate with other believers though, and we&#8217;re told to like it! Don&#8217;t believe me? Check out John 13:35 and let me know what you think?<span id="more-113"></span></p>
<p>So, we will love one another when we follow Christ. <strong>If </strong>He loves us, and we love Him, <strong>then </strong>we will love His family. What is the earthly church if it isn&#8217;t the family of believers? It stands to reason that if you love people, that you will want to be with them some of the time. It seems impossible &#8211; to me &#8211; that a person could say &#8220;yes&#8221; to Christ, but &#8220;no&#8221; to His church.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s examine some of the analogies that describe the church in Scripture:</p>
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<li>The church is a <strong>building </strong>and Christ is the foundation. Who could say &#8220;yes&#8221; to the foundation and &#8220;no&#8221; to the building that sits on it?</li>
<li>The church is His <strong>bride</strong>. Who can say &#8220;yes&#8221; to the groom and &#8220;no&#8221; to the bride?</li>
<li>The church is His <strong>body</strong>. Who can say &#8220;yes&#8221; to the head, then &#8220;no&#8221; to the body?</li>
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<p>To love the Lord is to love His church. One final point on &#8216;church attendance&#8217; is this; when Saul was persecuting the church (arresting Christians), the Lord appeared to him in a blinding light and asked, &#8220;Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting <strong>me</strong>?&#8221; <em>Rejecting the church is rejecting Christ</em> just as logically as persecuting the church is persecuting Christ.</p>
<p>So, what does this all mean <em>practically</em>? It means to stop projecting the weaknesses of believers onto Christ as an excuse for non-attendance. It means to stop rationalizing your reasons for staying home on Sunday (or Saturday). It means to cast off the earthly reasons why you might not want to go, and realize that &#8211; as believers &#8211; we come together with the local body on a regular basis, and we love them. (Again, I won&#8217;t go into the rare occurrences like, &#8220;I live on an island and there are four other people here&#8221;. Meet with the four then and if they aren&#8217;t Christians, witness to them.) I am talking to the other 99% of believers who &#8211; with varying frequency &#8211; use the weaknesses of other believers to rationalize church non-attendance. Stop it, just stop it.</p>
<p>If your excuses sound pale and hollow here on earth, what do you think they will sound like in an infinitely large space in front of the throne at the end of time?</p>

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